Fall is upon us, and between the chilly weather, the ominous clouds, and tonight’s lunar eclipse/blood moon, now’s the perfect time to start putting your best Soft Goth look together. This aesthetic isn’t just a look, it’s a way of life – but if you’re not totally sure what it means, don’t worry; that’s why we’re here! A good Soft Goth combines darkness and light in everything they do. They have a black heart and a cuddly exterior; they mix creeping dread with just the right amount of sweetness. They’re your best friend and your worst enemy. They’re also the best-dressed person you know.

This week is the perfect time to get your soft goth on, and we’ve got a few different products to get you started.

This black fun fur drawstring bag is the perfect place to store your potions and spells; dark enough to stash your deepest secrets, but fluffy enough that no one will suspect a thing:

Or, if backpacks aren’t your style, try this Harcoza tote bag – big enough to fit everything you need, and its clear pockets add the perfect mix of mystery and cuteness to your outfit:

And if that bag’s feeling a little light, drop this book of amazing Japanese street styles in and get some inspiration for your next look:

These floral goth temporary tattoos are the epitome of soft goth – wear them one at a time to make a statement, or all at once to freak out the normals:

Of course, if you want to protect those tattoos, you’ll need an umbrella to match:

And finally, this long bow choker is the perfect accessory to tie your look together.